When planning a wedding, many couples may wonder whether or not to invite children to the event. While some couples may prefer an adults-only affair, others may embrace the energy and joy that children can bring to the celebration. Here are some best practices and ideas for including kids in your wedding.

1. Inviting Children

When deciding whether or not to invite children to your wedding, consider your budget, the size of your venue, and the age range of the children in question. If you choose to invite children, make sure to clearly indicate this on the invitation, and provide information about any special accommodations or activities that will be available for them.

2. Kid-Friendly Activities

Providing kid-friendly activities can help keep children entertained and engaged throughout the wedding. Consider setting up a designated kids' area with games, coloring books, glow sticks, bubbles, and other activities. You can also hire a babysitter or two to supervise the kids and provide a safe and fun environment for them to play in.

3. Kids' Menu

Providing a separate kids' menu can help ensure that children enjoy their meal and feel included in the celebration. You can offer simple, kid-friendly options like chicken fingers, pizza, or mac and cheese, along with healthier options like fruit and veggies. Don't forget to include a fun dessert, like cupcakes or ice cream, for the kids to enjoy.

4. Special Roles

Including children in the wedding party can be a special and meaningful way to involve them in the celebration. You can ask a young family member to be a flower girl or ring bearer, or include older children as junior bridesmaids or groomsmen. You can also ask children to perform a special song or dance during the reception.

5. Kids' Favors

Providing kids' favors can be a fun and memorable way to thank them for being a part of your special day. You can offer fun items like bubbles, glow sticks, or stickers, or provide personalized items like coloring books or crayons with the couple's names and wedding date on them.

6. Childcare Options

If you choose not to invite children to your wedding, consider providing childcare options for parents who may need them. You can provide a list of local babysitters or offer to arrange childcare services through a trusted provider. This can help ensure that parents feel comfortable leaving their children in capable hands while they enjoy the celebration. At our venue in particular, we have had couples choose to hire two babysitters and convert the The Gathering Room at The Farmhouse to be a kid-friendly space, either for the entire event or for the wedding reception. Kids will be able to do crafts, have a movie night, and play with their new friends while parents get to enjoy the evening worry-free.

Final Thoughts

Including children in your wedding can be a fun and rewarding experience for both you and your young guests. By providing kid-friendly activities, special roles, and thoughtful favors, you can create a memorable and enjoyable experience for children of all ages. Whether you choose to invite children or not, providing childcare options can help ensure that all of your guests feel welcome and included in your special day.